And then she took it back. Tonight after we read our bedtime story, Amber was naming all the characters on the back of her book and she decided she was going to name a bear Tiger Woods, who she watched lose terribly with her grandparents on Sunday. Then she changed her mind and said that the bear was not Tiger Woods because Tiger Woods was gone. I asked her where he went and she said, "He's gone on TV."
Who can argue with that?
When I tried to say goodnight, she told me that I could not leave because I was stuck and she was holding me too tight. Needless to say I made it out.
From putting together puzzles and being able to spell her name, to tracing the days of the week and telling me that green means go and red means stop at traffic lights, this 3 ft, 28 lb, 3-year-old wonder is embracing learning in such an amazing way.
A dizzying few days of urgent discussions resulting in a last minute decision to move her to a new school several weeks ago actually left me feeling at bit on the insecure side about my parenting skills.
But the past few days have been eye opening for me as I've witnessed how she's being taught in this school. And helping with meaningful homework shows me that her father and I made the right choice to provide a foundation for nurturing her innate desire to know more and stay true to her mantra: "I wanna do it myself!"
Signing up for the PTA, sharing ideas about child raising, and just being a fully engaged parent has made me want to be even more proactive and vigilant about making sure she is educated academically and culturally. This summer she marched in a parade at a butterfly festival and toured a mini-replica of Martin Luther King Jr.'s home at the National Black Arts Festival. With Spanish, computer lab and library visits all twice weekly at her school, and whether we enroll her in dance, gymnastics, karate or all three, she's going to be stimulated in so many ways.
Educational gifts like bilingual computers from people who love her and regular travel thanks to her father have me feeling more assured than ever that she will be prepared for whatever opportunities this shrinking global community has to offer.
This year will be filled with important lessons for Amber and me. And I am so excited about watching her grow into someone who loves to learn.
Thank you for your help, thoughts, prayers and well wishes along the way. Love you much, JD